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Trust the warning
You do not need courtroom-level proof to leave a room, call somebody, make noise, or change your plan. The bad feeling is enough.
A serious survival campaign
Bite thedick off.
When a woman knows she is in danger, surviving may mean thinking ahead, appearing to cooperate, waiting for an opening—and fighting like hell to get free.
Shock gets attention. Survival is the point.
“Bite The Dick Off” is deliberately blunt because sexual assault is real, terrifying, and too often discussed in whispers. This is not about revenge. It is about giving women permission to trust danger, use surprise, resist when they can, and escape.
An attacker may expect fear, silence, or compliance. Appearing to cooperate can be a survival decision. If that creates an opening, sudden resistance—including biting—may create the second needed to get away.
No response makes an assault the survivor’s fault. Fighting, freezing, fleeing, or complying to stay alive are all survival responses.
The survival mindset
End the problem now and for the future.
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Choose what keeps you alive
If direct resistance is not safe yet, acting calm or compliant can be strategy—not consent. The survivor decides what the moment requires.
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Create distance and go
When an opening appears, make noise, resist, get away, move toward people or safety, and call for help. Escape is the win.
This campaign offers general awareness, not a guarantee that any tactic will work. Every assault is different. No survivor is responsible for an attacker’s actions or for how her body responds under threat.
For parents
Raise daughters who fight back.
Strength starts before an emergency. Teach girls that their discomfort matters, “no” is a complete answer, and politeness never outranks personal safety.
Believe her when she says someone or something feels wrong.
Practice leaving, calling, yelling, and getting to a trusted adult.
Use age-appropriate language without shame or scare tactics.
Make sure she knows survival is never something to apologize for.
Print-on-demand merchandise
Wear the warning.
Three launch designs are being prepared. No wasteful stacks of inventory, no fake availability—just strong shirts coming soon.
Coming soon
The original statement shirt
Blunt, unforgettable, and impossible to misunderstand.
Coming soon
The mission shirt
A serious message about stopping harm now and changing what comes next.
Coming soon
The parent shirt
For families raising confident girls who trust themselves.
In development
The breakaway bite trainer.
A non-realistic, phallic-shaped training concept intended to help adult women and supervised trainees understand commitment and pressure without pretending a classroom exercise can reproduce a real assault.
The final design must be engineered around dental safety, controlled breakaway behavior, cleanable materials, and replaceable components. It will not be offered for sale until qualified professionals test it.
Founded byBobby MareFather of two daughters
Why this exists
“I’m a father. I’m proud. And I refuse to stay quiet.”
I started Bite The Dick Off because I have two young daughters and I do not like what is happening to girls and women. I want them—and every woman—to know that their lives matter more than an attacker’s comfort, expectations, or body.
The name is shocking because the reality is worse. The purpose is serious: start conversations, strengthen instincts, fund education, and remind women that getting home alive is the only rule that matters.
Free, confidential support
You do not have to handle this alone.
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline offers free, confidential, 24/7 support. This website provides general awareness—not legal, medical, or professional self-defense advice.